Thursday, July 25, 2013

Things I'll Miss and . . . Some I Won't

Here is just a list of a few things that I will and will not miss about being in Japan so enjoy! (This may be updated periodically given the fact that I have the world's worst memory).

Miss
  • IES e-pals/and other friends of course!!!
  • HOA ALOHA GIRLS!!!!
  • Book-Off (I can never buy a book wholesale again - even though I will have to here in the US)
  • The fries at La Paz
  • The Fettuccine chewy candies
  • Our little rice field down the street from our dorm (watched it grow from dirt to tall stalks)
  • Ease of public transportation
  • Clean trains ALWAYS
  • Train passes that can be used to get things from stores/vending machines
  • LaLaPort Mall and Makuhari Messe Mall
  • Aeons (awesome for all my random shopping needs)/Tokyu Hands (great crafty store)
  • Value seat Night buses (double decker say wha!)
  • All the konbinis!!!
  • The Turkish food restuarant in Aeon in Kaihinmakuhari (I LOVED IT!)
  • Miso ramen (my fave, must learn to make)
  • Baskin Robbins special flavors in Japan (that 4 For U promo was freakin' sweet!)
  • Daiso (Japanese dollar stores)
  • Yellow couches in the SALC (I never felt more popular meeting so many people, lol)
  • The little fork that came with the Dole fruit cans at the konbinis
  • The awesomely large cans of flavored beer for very low prices

Not Miss
  • Slow opening AUTOMATIC doors
  • Being stared at because I am a gaijin
  • Commuting to school
  • Being so far from any real nightlife
  • High prices for clothing EVERYWHERE
  • Fish (I'm sorry but they fed it to us too much at the dorm)
  • Humidity (mushiatui tenki ga daikirai)

Suitcase Fiasco and Last Day Mishaps

Funny story . . .

So the night before I had to catch my flight back home I made plans to pack away my things so that my dorm manager could check my room and I could leave right away the following morning. He was fine with this and so was I (waking up at 6 AM just to check a stupid room is convenient to no one). I hammered away at my things, throwing them into this bag or that pocket. Trouble was I only had two suitcases . . . one big one small . . . AND TOO MANY SOUVENIRS!!!


A paralyzing realization hit me that I would not be able to get home with all of my things unless I had an extra suitcase but because it was already after 8 PM there was no way any store in the area that sold suitcases would be open by the time I got to them.

Trying my best to remain calm I kept reassuring myself that I could handle this situation and tears would solve nothing. But, me being the worry-wart that I am I reached full panic mode in minutes and, surrounded by all the things that had yet to be put away, I called Kyri who was out escorting her visiting grandmother to her hotel. With no one to keep me sane I resorted to sharing my anxiety on Facebook hoping someone would reach out with much needed advice. Lo and behold, Megan graced my status with the most amazing news I had ever heard - her host mom would give me a suitcase!

At first I was shocked and was not sure how I would get the suitcase back to the woman but Megan assured me that I could in fact keep the suitcase and that I need only come the one train stop over to pick it up. I rushed out the door and down the block to the train station and hoped that the bag would be big enough to help me out. She met me outside the turnstiles and showed me to her host mom's car and there it was . . . the savior suitcase!


This suitcase was in pretty decent shaped and man had it traveled (all of the checked bag stickers were still attached to it). I immediately asked her in Japanese how much to pay her because I felt that I should compensate her for her luggage. Megan's host mom looked me dead in the eyes and said to me in pure English that I did not have to do that. She went on to tell me that the suitcase had been given to her from a friend for the exact same reason and that it was very apropos that I should need one. It was at that moment that the flood gates opened and I could not stop myself from crying as I thanked her. She laughed and hugged me and said she would tell her friend how thankful I was and that everything would be alright. Megan joined our hug fest briefly and then I went on my way. Crisis averted. Luckily the repacking process was successful (obviously), although there were a few casualties in the form of gym shoes and other miscellany but otherwise I was just happy to have the important things put away.

The following morning I arose with the intent to get out and catch the train to the bus stop no later than 6:30 AM. Unfortunately Kyri had not gotten up yet and we were seriously running out of time. Hurriedly returning my keys and giving the manager a special thank you letter that I wrote,

Don't judge if it is incorrect!
we stumbled out the door and down the bumpy streets towards the train. The time for the first train soon approaching it hit me that I would not be able to manage these three suitcases on my own all the way to the bus. It just so happens that there was a taxi waiting outside the station at which time Kyri and I exchanged glances and agreed that it would be best if I hopped inside. I didn't care the cost I just didn't want to be sweaty on my journey home.

One 4,800 yen taxi ride and one 30 minute bus ride later I arrived at Narita Airport to await the welcome/goodbyes of great friends. I ended up paying an additional $150 for my over-sized bags but like I said I didn't really care at that point. My best guy friend Mak met me along with Hono, Yumi, Moe, and Hitomi (a few of the e-pals). Mak treated me to breakfast from the restaurant that he worked at called Soup Stock Tokyo (really freaking amazing soup)

and we all sat around talking, taking pictures, and then walking around trying to avoid thinking about the inevitable.


Hitomi, Yumi and Hono - amazing girls :)

Moe - so so cute!

When it came time for me to go through security and leave them all behind (at least for now) I did my best to suck it up and not cry (because I am a crier and its really annoying that I show emotion so readily, lol). Each one of them gave me a letter/gift, parting words, and hugs. I will never forget our big group hug and how much I knew I would miss them all (or the random celeb that showed up and was being swarmed nearby). Going down the stairs past security I got in the appropriate line for checking passports where they took my residency card, punched a hole through the date and removed me from their system forever (kinda sad and dramatic but hey, it happens).

After all of that I finally made it onto the plane and on the long flight home. I am so glad to have experienced the things that I did and met the people I met along the way because they all changed the way I look at things a little bit and I very much appreciate the marks they have all left on my life. I will do my best to stay in touch with as many of them as I can in the hopes that we grow as better friends and can make use of one another in future travels. As always じゃまた!

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Goodbye Party and Discussions at the Hub

On our last Friday at Kanda University, the heads of the program organized a going away party for us all. In preparation for this, the student affairs coordinator asked us students if we would like to enhance the festivities with any kind of performance to which many people responded positively. There was food, good people, our teachers, and many of the host families present at the party. There was even a running slide show of all the various events we had during the course of the semester which was really cute. Below will be a tirade of photos and videos from that evening, as well as, performances from my fellow students (some of which have been borrowed).

REN'S SONG










 
TINA'S SHAMISEN DEBUT













 
EVA'S GLOWING HULA HOOP DANCE
 








 
 
HOA ALOHA NEWBIES DANCE
 
BONUS FUN VIDEO WITH THE NEWBIES
 
After the party some of us exchanged some heartfelt and tear-filled goodbyes (although we all said see you later because who wants the weight of a final goodbye hanging over them on what should be a fun night?) and parted ways. A large group of us went to a local pub called the British Hub for a little after party. I got the chance to hang out with my new good friend Shiho one last time before I left which was awesome. She's a really charismatic and thoughtful individual who speaks her mind without hesitation. When I first met her she asked me to help her with an assignment which was supposed to only last about 15 minutes and ended up going for over and hour and half (making me late for class, lol). We talked about all manner of life experiences and sharing our stories and it was a really awesome immediate connection. I only regret that I didn't get the chance to hang out with her more. But our last night together we talked an awful lot. With the help of Kyri and Megan, we pretty much covered all the topics they always tell you not to talk about in common conversation so as not to develop awkward feelings - politics and religion. On top of that we talked about marriage and weddings and lifestyle choices . . . everything. It was pretty fun and enlightening to share our opinions and even change Shiho's opinions about Americans (glad it was for the better!). This was a good night that we all needed and although it was on our last night it is one we are not likely to forget. :]